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not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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NatureLoverSenior Contributor

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@outlander wrote:
Struggling with words atm. Lifes just hard. Finding it hard to even ask for help

So sorry @outlander ... I can sit with you too ❤

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Lee82Senior Contributor

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Here to sit with you too @outlander. ❤️

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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thank you @Lee82 @NatureLover

thank you @Former-Member i dont know. im just tired of complaining, of having to deal with pain everyday more often in more then one area at a time. there just seems to be something wrong all the time and its hard to manage. if i go into anymore i probably wont be able to stop tears im sorry

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Lee82Senior Contributor

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Oh @outlander I can't imAgine what you go through everyday hun. You have every right to complain even though I don't see it as complaining. I see it as you are just venting and telling your friends just how you are feeling. I'm so sorry hun for everything you Are going through. 😔

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NatureLoverSenior Contributor

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@outlander ... What @Lee82 said. ^^^

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Unknown userMember

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You aren't complaining, you are chatting with friends who care about what is happening for you. I understand completely not being able to stop the tears. Please never apologise for not being able to share or not share, knowing your personal limits is a good thing little one. I will just sit here with you and hold your hand. @outlander

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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thanks @Lee82 @NatureLover @Former-Member

sometimes i just wish i wasnt here at all. then everyone wouldnt have to deal with me either.

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NatureLoverSenior Contributor

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@outlander 😥💔

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Lee82Senior Contributor

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We would be devastated if you weren't here @outlander . You are the one who is there for everyone around you hun. No one has to deal with you. Your family would be lost without you hun and we need you around here. You are such an amazing support and a wonderful friend. You are important and very much cared about

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NatureLoverSenior Contributor

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@Lee82 wrote:

We would be devastated if you weren't here @outlander .

...

You are important and very much cared about

Yes @outlander 💙

I'm short on words, and it's my time to log off for the night...I hope you will be OK, @outlander . Sending a very gentle hug...

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