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not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2017, 8:11 pm AEST

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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outlanderSenior Contributor21 July 2020, 10:15 am AEST

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ive had to change the dressings once late last night and will do another one soon as its still leaking quite abit but i also think thats also from still having the saline solution so ill let it air out for a while and then put a clean dressing on it esp being around horses.

i go in to see the gastroenterologist on the 5th of august. the biopsy results will be back now but doesnt have any appts till the 5th. they are letting me actually go in rather then having a phone appt this time so i can have a better chat with him and also have a look at the pictures he took with the camera as well. @NatureLover

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Lee82Senior Contributor21 July 2020, 10:15 am AEST

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@outlander How are you today hun?

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outlanderSenior Contributor21 July 2020, 10:15 am AEST

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hey @Lostandalone good to see you

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outlanderSenior Contributor21 July 2020, 10:18 am AEST

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stomachs hurting quite abit today @Lee82 at least i know some of the reasoning behind it though so im not so stressed about it.
was a really rough night after getting back from the drs so got the horses done early and will rest for most of the day till i get the kids

how are you?

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NatureLoverSenior Contributor21 July 2020, 10:24 am AEST

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@outlander wrote:
@NatureLover
if your on a windows computer i can teach you another emoji trick as well.

Thanks so much for the trick! And yes, I am on a Windows computer...

Sorry your wounds are being problematic @outlander . That's a bummer that you can't see the gastroenterologist till the 5th Aug...I guess at least you can go in in person.

Sorry to hear your stomach's painful today...really hope it eases before you have to get the kids.

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outlanderSenior Contributor21 July 2020, 10:37 am AEST

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there you go @NatureLover now you know how to do a loveheart.
if you want some other emojis including the plants and the different coloured hearts.

if you hold the windows button (the 4 squared window looking thing on one particular key on the keyboard) and then click the full stop key then release it should bring up all the other emojis

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Eve7Senior Contributor21 July 2020, 1:33 pm AEST

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Just popping by to drop off some love @outlander

💕 💕💕💕😊💕💕💕💕

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Unknown userMember21 July 2020, 6:15 pm AEST

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I am sorry you wounds are causing you so much grief my friend. I am glad to hear you are not so stress about your stomach issues. 15 days isn't too bad I guess to wait to see your specialist but I guess easy for me to say since I don't have your issues. Sending you gentle hugs sweetie.

@outlander

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outlanderSenior Contributor21 July 2020, 6:21 pm AEST

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Thanks @Eve7 xo

Thanks @Former-Member xo
Struggling with words atm. Lifes just hard. Finding it hard to even ask for help

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Unknown userMember21 July 2020, 6:32 pm AEST

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Ohhh honey that is hard for you, I know. Did you want to try and talk to me? All good if you can't I will just sit with you. @outlander

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