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not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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oh dear @NatureLover its like fighting a battle on 2 fronts isnt it.
can you maybe pick one room to focus on today, then one room to focus on tomorrow etc. maybe start with the room thats used the least and work your way up so that you might feel like your getting somewhere?

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Unknown userMember

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Sorry to hear you are a little worse for wear today my friend, but pj day sounds awesome. I hope your pain relief works well and your reflux doesn't give you to much grief today. @outlander

@NatureLover , I too am sad you might not be around much for the next week or so as I enjoy chatting with you too. I feel for you with the whole hoarding disorder and ocd. I don't have the hoarding disorder but I do have a touch of ocd. I have had clients with the hoarding disorder and the constant stress they are under because of it is huge, so be gentle with yourself as you clean, take regular breaks and the biggest thing BE GENTLE WITH YOURSELF my beautiful friend. We will be waiting patiently for your return or if you need a break/chat/vent we will all be here for that anytime. @NatureLover

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Zoe7Senior Contributor

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@outlander

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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how are you today @Zoe7

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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thanks @Former-Member how are you going today?

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Zoe7Senior Contributor

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Okay @outlander but a lot still to do.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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hoping you can get everything you need to do done @Zoe7 Step by step 🐾

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Zoe7Senior Contributor

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Yes that is how I am doing it @outlander A little at a time, taking breaks when I need it. I need to head into the city this weekend so considering doing that soon today so it is out of the way.

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Unknown userMember

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Not to bad today my friend. Kimmy is still struggling a lot after yesterday's MH session but is sitting off to the side. Been to the shops early to be able to leave before it was to crowded and noisy now to try and get all the house work done and paint room cleaned up. I am ready for a nap just thinking about it. @outlander

@Zoe7 , hope you manage to get your work load done without to much stress. Give Toby a hug from me.

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ethSenior Contributor

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Hey @outlander sending wishes for you to recover swiftly. I went back 8 pages but couldn't find out what your procedure was. No matter, just hope it's helpful and your health improves as a result of having it. Lots of love xoxo

Hi to everyone else here too @Zoe7 @NatureLover @Maggie @Former-Member @Sans911 @Snowie and anyone I've missed.

Hope today is one of the better ones for you all.

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