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not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2017, 8:11 pm AEST

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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outlanderSenior Contributor18 July 2020, 9:26 am AEST

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Morning @NatureLover @Lee82 @Snowie @Former-Member @Eve7 @Sans911 @Zoe7 @Faith-and-Hope @Maggie @Appleblossom @eth and everyone

Sending love and hugs to you all and wishing some goodness in your days

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Unknown userMember18 July 2020, 9:55 am AEST

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Hey little one, how are you feeling today?

@outlander

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outlanderSenior Contributor18 July 2020, 10:01 am AEST

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Morning Nikki
feeling a little worse for wear this morning but i have the day off so im still in pjs and dont really plan on going anywhere except to the horses later in the evening and no biggie if i miss today and go tomorrow morning. going to try and have some pain relief and maybe a cup of tea.

@Former-Member

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MaggieSenior Contributor18 July 2020, 10:09 am AEST

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@outlander Pj day here also.

I hope some pain relief, and relaxation helps today. Take care of yourself. Sending 💕💕💕

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outlanderSenior Contributor18 July 2020, 10:13 am AEST

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pj days are great @Maggie i dont get them very often so im quite happy to sit here in the warm and watch movies.
if i stand up or walk around it causes quite abit of pain so sitting it is! i have heaps of reflux so being very careful with what i have today so it doesnt get any worse.

are you planning on doing some dot painting today?

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NatureLoverSenior Contributor18 July 2020, 10:17 am AEST

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@outlander wrote:
Morning @NatureLover @Lee82 @Snowie @Former-Member @Eve7 @Sans911 @Zoe7 @Faith-and-Hope @Maggie @Appleblossom @eth and everyone
Sending love and hugs to you all and wishing some goodness in your days

Thanks, @outlander ...same to you. Am hoping today is restful and you can get some food and drink down.

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outlanderSenior Contributor18 July 2020, 10:19 am AEST

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thanks @NatureLover

hows your day looking?

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NatureLoverSenior Contributor18 July 2020, 10:30 am AEST

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Am really panicking about the state of the house for the rental inspection, @outlander ...I may not be around much for the next 5 days sadly. But I will be thinking of you all and will try to keep up with your news at mealtimes.

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outlanderSenior Contributor18 July 2020, 10:34 am AEST

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im sorry to hear you wont be around much for the next week. i quite enjoy your company! @NatureLover
i do hope you get your house to your standards. im sure it looks great already though, i know you do an amazing job of cleaning.

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NatureLoverSenior Contributor18 July 2020, 10:55 am AEST

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But that's the thing, stuff piles up in my house as I have hoarding disorder, plus the germophobia means that even more stuff piles up waiting to be disinfected. It's like a nightmare @outlander 😥

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