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not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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Lee82Senior Contributor

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Thanks @NatureLover I have taken some pain relief but doesn't seem to be doing much. I have just cooked dinner for the boys and now I am laying down On the couch.
how have you been lately?

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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yeah sometimes there arent really many options is there @Snowie really sucks its happening.

thank you, ill be back soon. mums just getting the stuff from chemist for me and dropping them off. i cant be online when shes around ill come back though

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NatureLoverSenior Contributor

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@outlander wrote:
the 2 horses that i had to do tomorrow (the ones that arent my own) i dont have to do now cause the owners are pretty nice and said how about i just give you tomorrow off and then restart on sunday so now i only have to do my horses in the arvo and will only take half hr now

Am really glad to hear, @outlander 🙂

Thanks for remembering about my lawyer's appointment, with everything you had on! It was today, and yes, I recovered my documents in time. It went well in that the lawyer was nice and I got the clear advice I was wanting. Unfortunately the information isn't in my favour though. 😥

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NatureLoverSenior Contributor

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@Snowie wrote:

Yes covid really is putting a spanner in my plans. I really don't want to go back in, but that is my only option for now.

Sorry to hear, @Snowie 😣

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NatureLoverSenior Contributor

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@Lee82 see above post for my update...

I really hope your pain relief kicks in soon!

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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hoping your pain relief is working now @Lee82 and you can get some rest

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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im sorry its not in your favour @NatureLover i hope that something can be worked out for whatever you might need. im happy to listen if you want to talk more about it but i respect your privacy and your own comfort levels as well.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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@Sans911 💜💜

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NatureLoverSenior Contributor

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@outlander wrote:
im sorry its not in your favour @NatureLover i hope that something can be worked out for whatever you might need. im happy to listen if you want to talk more about it but i respect your privacy and your own comfort levels as well.

Thanks so much, you're so lovely, @outlander 💙

It's all too distressing to talk about, plus it's my time to log off for the night now.

I hope tonight is restful for you and you can get some sleep. Good night @outlander

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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thats ok @NatureLover totally get it.
i hope you sleep well
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