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not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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oh stupid covid @Snowie
how long are they thinking youll be in there for?

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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@outlander probably for at least a month hun. I am not sure yet, still thinking things through.

How are you going tonight?

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NatureLoverSenior Contributor

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@Lee82 wrote:

Hey @Sans911 not doing the best right now. I have injured my back and can hardly move but unfortunately I still have the boys to look after. On top of that my anxiety is off the charts after dealing with a FB.

Sorry to hear, @Lee82 😞 I hope your back comes good very soon, it sounds very painful 😞

@outlander , how is your back?

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Unknown userMember

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Sending you all gentle hugs and all my love @outlander , @Snowie , @NatureLover

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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ah geez @Snowie the covid crisis right now couldnt have revamped at a worse time hey. it was all just starting to get under control esp in the medical field so you could see your supports and have outpatient treatments and now its gone and ruined it!

im okish, have abit of a sore throat and really stuffy nose. ive have it since they put the nasal oxygen on so im just getting mum to pick me up some allergy tablets and a nasal spray and see if that helps, might help be really dry or something since i was fine beforehand. have taken some pain releif now though for throat and headache so they dont get any worse. have decided to be lazy and order dinner tonight, still something lite but i cant be bothered cooking today.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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my backs quite alot better now @NatureLover i mustve just pulled a muscle but its better now thank you
how are you?

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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sending love and hugs to you too @Former-Member here for you if you need to talk

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NatureLoverSenior Contributor

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Glad your back's a lot better, that's good news, @outlander . Also that you're taking the night off cooking. I hope your throat and headache get better quickly 💙

I'm OK thanks.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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thanks @NatureLover
the 2 horses that i had to do tomorrow (the ones that arent my own) i dont have to do now cause the owners are pretty nice and said how about i just give you tomorrow off and then restart on sunday so now i only have to do my horses in the arvo and will only take half hr now


im glad that your ok, did you get your documents sorted in time? hoping everything went ok with the laywer meeting today (i think its today forgive me if im wrong)

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Yes covid really is putting a spanner in my plans. I really don't want to go back in, but that is my only option for now.

You deserve a night off hun after all you have gone through today @outlander

I ordered dinner tonight too!

I hope the allergy tablets and the pain relief helps you tonight sweetie.

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