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Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2017, 8:11 pm AEST

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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outlanderSenior Contributor15 July 2020, 8:17 pm AEST

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i cant even look on fb anymore 😞 @Snowie my sisters putting up all these pictures of the new horse and everyones commenting how well my sisters looked after her and everything. i knew this was a bad idea from the start. why didnt i just say i couldnt afford it and try and keep moving on. why did my own selfishness come out and agree to getting the horse back. i cant even say anything because we all know how it goes.

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SnowieSenior Contributor15 July 2020, 8:17 pm AEST

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Goodnight @NatureLover sleep well 💜

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SnowieSenior Contributor15 July 2020, 8:26 pm AEST

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@outlander you are not being selfish hun, you have a right to have something that you call your own. We all have that right. You especially since you have so much taken away from you.

I'm sorry that it is turning out this way for you. My heart breaks for you sweetie.💕💕

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outlanderSenior Contributor15 July 2020, 8:39 pm AEST

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its hitting really hard @Snowie i dont know if itll get better when she is here and the excitment has worn off but right now i just want to hide away. my sh urges are so high again. all this over a horse. why cant i just be normal

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outlanderSenior Contributor15 July 2020, 8:41 pm AEST

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im sorry 😞 i need to go manage my sh/si urges

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SnowieSenior Contributor15 July 2020, 8:46 pm AEST

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Go do what you need to do hun, am always here with/for you even when I'm not here @outlander

Lots of love and squishy hugs 💕💕💕

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JynxModerator15 July 2020, 8:57 pm AEST

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@outlander Sending some extra strength, and good on you for taking the steps to keep yourself safe tonight. We are just an email away (team@saneforums.org) if you need to touch base or get some extra support

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outlanderSenior Contributor15 July 2020, 9:21 pm AEST

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Thank you @Jynx @Snowie
Just had a shower and now watching the new tv series 'emergency' its pretty good and based on an ed in australia

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Eve7Senior Contributor15 July 2020, 9:33 pm AEST

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I am watching that too @outlander and I’m sending you a hug 🤗 and every other good thing I can send you.

Big, big love

💕 💖💕

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outlanderSenior Contributor15 July 2020, 9:43 pm AEST

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@Eve7 💙

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