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Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2017, 8:11 pm AEST

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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NatureLoverSenior Contributor15 July 2020, 7:49 pm AEST

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@outlander wrote:
i should get results from specialist straight after or get an idea from the nurses at least.

Straight after sounds great, @outlander

@outlander wrote:
transport was sorted @NatureLover going off today though now i dont know. will prob make my own way there somehow or see if i can hire someone to take me/pick me up.

I am speechless that your family won't take you and pick you up. That is...unprintable!

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outlanderSenior Contributor15 July 2020, 7:53 pm AEST

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mum is suppose to take me and pick me up @NatureLover dont know if thats still happening. various reasons. cant really get into it but was hinted they dont want to waste the day chasing after me.

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SnowieSenior Contributor15 July 2020, 7:55 pm AEST

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ohh @outlander I wish I could take you and pick you up.

Speechless atm about your mother.

Just gp and chemist today.

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NatureLoverSenior Contributor15 July 2020, 7:56 pm AEST

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I'm actually a gentle person, @outlander , but you wouldn't know it from the way your mother makes my blood boil.

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outlanderSenior Contributor15 July 2020, 7:59 pm AEST

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its not just her @Snowie
she had it arranged with me i just dont know if thats still happening. guess ill find out tomorrow depending on the time. someone i know is heading into that area in the morning so might see if she coud drop me in there and ust get mum to pick me up.

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outlanderSenior Contributor15 July 2020, 8:01 pm AEST

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im sorry i dont really like talking about my mother or situation much. its frustrating.

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SnowieSenior Contributor15 July 2020, 8:09 pm AEST

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Understand hun @outlander

Don't like talking about my mum either

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NatureLoverSenior Contributor15 July 2020, 8:11 pm AEST

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Sorry, @outlander , I've been asking you questions. Feel free to say you'd rather not talk about things, if I ask you questions you'd rather not answer.

It's my time to sign off for the night...I hope you will be OK tonight, @outlander...I hope it's a better night than usual ❤️

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outlanderSenior Contributor15 July 2020, 8:13 pm AEST

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no need to apologise @NatureLover
if it was me i would be asking the same questions to someone else too. i actually asked the very questions you just asked me to Sans when she was having the same procedure done. No harm done.

i hope you sleep well

@Snowie

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NatureLoverSenior Contributor15 July 2020, 8:16 pm AEST

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@outlander wrote:
no need to apologise @NatureLover
...
No harm done.

OK, I'm glad, @outlander . And thanks for your kind wishes.

Good night @outlander @Snowie @Sans911 ...

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