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not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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thanks @Snowie

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Whatever is going on I will always be here for you hun. You are important to me @outlander 👨🏻‍🤝‍👨🏻💕

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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@Sans911 @Snowie @Former-Member @NatureLover

what did you do today?

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NatureLoverSenior Contributor

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I'm sorry you're feeling so pushed out by your family and so low, @outlander 😥

I wish I could give you a big hug and some hope 💔💙

@Sans911 wrote:

@NatureLover- I don't watch TV either nor have I owned a TV for over 4 years. If I'm at somebody's house I'll watch a little bit, but otherwise I find it quite boring. I occasionally watch some catch or other programs on catch up.

Thank you for saying that, @Sans911 ❤

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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sorry, thats not fair of me to say. edited post.

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NatureLoverSenior Contributor

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@outlander wrote:
@Sans911@Snowie@Former-Member@NatureLover

what did you do today?

Not a great day today, but I did get the speakers for my computer - never had speakers for the old one, so that's a bit exciting.

Do you have to fast with no cups of tea before your procedure on Friday? What time do you have to be at the hospital? (If you'd rather just have distraction from that topic, please just ignore)

@outlander

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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im glad you got your speakers sorted @NatureLover thats good.

i honestly dont know much about friday. i only know the fasting rules but dont know what time it is/time i have to be there etc till tomorrow. already sorted payment out and confirmed with hospital, surgeon and anaethetist today. thats about as far ive gotten. i need to ring tomorrow arvo to talk to admissions about a time etc

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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@Snowie @Sans911

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NatureLoverSenior Contributor

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@outlander wrote:
i honestly dont know much about friday. i only know the fasting rules but dont know what time it is/time i have to be there etc till tomorrow. already sorted payment out and confirmed with hospital, surgeon and anaethetist today. thats about as far ive gotten. i need to ring tomorrow arvo to talk to admissions about a time etc

Ah, I see. Will someone drive you to the hospital? I hope so. And do you have a follow-up appointment with the surgeon to get the results?

@outlander

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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transport was sorted @NatureLover going off today though now i dont know. will prob make my own way there somehow or see if i can hire someone to take me/pick me up.
i should get results from specialist straight after or get an idea from the nurses at least.
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