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not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2017, 8:11 pm AEST

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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In response to: not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor28 June 2020, 8:57 pm AEST

Re: not coping

Goodnight @Snowie thanks for the chat. I hope you can sleep well ❤💚💙💖💜

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NatureLoverSenior Contributor29 June 2020, 8:42 am AEST

Re: not coping

@outlander wrote:
thank you @NatureLover
im sorry your upset tonight, do you want to have a chat? you can talk here if you like i dont mind

Thanks for your lovely offer, @outlander ...I ended up signing off and going straight to bed. I feel a bit better this morning thankfully.

I hope you feel that things are bearable today, but I worry they're not... I hope you can get your surgery date this morning from the gastroenterologist's office.