not coping

im sorry i just dont know what to do anymore. i have to go do pops dinner and finish folding the laundry for now.

Hey @outlander ,

I can see that you're struggling a bit tonight.

It's so lovely to see all of these community members that hear you, care about you and are sitting with you through this. I am also sitting with you tonight. This is a gentle and caring reminder to remember to reach out for help if you need

Basil

@Snowie

thanks @Former-Member
i cant connect to a webchat again, its wasting resources. its wasting time. its wasting energy i no longer have left. other people need more help then what i do

It's ok to not not what to do @outlander. You're in such a difficult situation with everything coming at you different angles. I'm sorry I have no answers for your and I can't help you in practical sense, but know that you have my unconditional love and support always.

One day things will be different for you. Life won't be like this forever. And you have a lot of living yet to do. If nothing else, what you are going through now will be a walk in the park for the rest of your life. Nothing will ever be as tough as it now.

But also no one should be shouldering all the burdens and responsibilities that you have. You get no support, only ridicule, invalidation and ignorance. You deserve better then that. You are worth so much more. I know how kind and caring your heart is. I'm sorry that those people who are your family can't see that. But this family here can.

Please call someone tonight lil Sis. Just to unburden your mind.

And if you want to talk hear, I'm all 'eyes' 👀

Don't measure yourself up to what others need @outlander. All you need to worry about right now is what your needs are