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Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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@Snowie @Sans911 👭👭 💚💜💚💜💚💜

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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@Snowie @Sans911 how are you guys going?

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Shaz51Senior Contributor

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@Snowie is around atm @outlander

are you ok xxx

hugs @Sans911

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Hi @outlander @Shaz51

How are you going hun?

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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im so so @Snowie

How are you going? how has your day been? Did you have ect today?

hello @Shaz51 👋

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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@outlander am around if you need to talk about anything hun.

I am ok. No ECT today. Had psych session. Was good to see psych after not seeing her for 4 weeks.

Having a few weeks break from ECT (whilst kids are on holidays)

Looking at doing maintenance ECT which would work out to one day per week but need to discuss it with my pdoc.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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im glad your going ok today @Snowie
are you finding your new(ish) psych a good match for you?
a few weeks break while the kids are on holidays sounds good. its been so intense for you lately, a breather might do some good too.

Whats the difference between the ECT you were doing and the maintenance one?

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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The ECT I was having was done 3 times per week and the maintenance ECT is just done once per week @outlander

It is exactly the same thing and they do the same to you but just the frequency is different.

I am finding the psych a good fit. I am feeling comfortable with her which is good.

Have you been up to much today hun?

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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oh i see @Snowie well i hope that the maintenance one will be good 👍

im glad that this psych is a good fit and that you feel comfortable with her as well.

i had the horses in the morning and in the arvo, kids for a while but other than that not much. quite a boring day of just trying to manage my own stupid emotions

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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@outlander hun, they are not stupid emotions hun. They are very real and valid sweetie.

Here with you tonight 💜

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