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Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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Oh yes my veins are super sensitive @Sans911 the last blood draw also made me yelp. 😬

Oh how interesting. Learn something new everyday!
Sounds like its good unless a complication starts to happen like the built up scar tissue. That sucks i hope that your pain will go and it wont cause any other issues for you. Youve been through more then enough 💜💜💜💜

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Sans911Senior Contributor

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As have you lil Sis @outlander 💕 💕

I'm going to head off lil Sis if you'll be OK. I'm feeling a bit uncomfortable after a conversation with someone. The forums these days are hard work, and it wasn't always like this. I wish I could feel ok here again.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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I know its getting late @Sans911 will you be heading to bed soon?
You can come sit with me till your ready for bed if you like

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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I will be ok @Sans911
I have missed our chats and you. Come back if you need tonight ill be up for a while yet if not can u at least check in tomorrow
💜

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Sans911Senior Contributor

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You've have made my day today lil Sis. I wanted to give you space to be comfortable talking about what is going on for youto so I've left you alone for a few days. But tonight you gave me an opening where I thought I would take a chance to see if you were ready to talk. It's the most you've said to me in quite a while!! I'm so grateful for you trusting in me and being comfortable. Thank you from the bottom of my ♥. Love and hugs my angel 😇 💖 💖 Goodnight sweet, sweet @outlander 💕 💕 💕

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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My silence is never because i dont trust you or feel uncomfortable sis, you never have to feel that you need to leave me alone or that you cant talk to me. sometimes i just cant get the words out, or im afraid or tensions or other reasons but never cause i dont trust you. Dont doubt yourself ❤
I really hope that i may have earnt your trust too, you know you can talk to me about anything?
@Sans911

I hope you can get some sleep tonight 😴😇💜

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NatureLoverSenior Contributor

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Thank you for your updates, @outlander . I'm so glad the gastroenterologist will bulk bill his and the anaesthetist's fees. Good luck getting the $800 soon...

Am really hoping that you can get an answer and a diagnosis of what's wrong. I'm like you in that I would always prefer to know what's wrong, then I can deal with it.

Hoping your pain is bearable today and you can eat and drink something...

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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@outlander @Sans911

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ethSenior Contributor

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👋 @outlander and to all your supporters here @NatureLover @Sans911 @Snowie and others. I do follow along and think of you a lot @outlander just don't have a lot of words most of the time at the moment. Hope today is one of the better ones for all here xx

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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thanks @NatureLover @eth ❤❤💚💚

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