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Something’s not right

not coping

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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@outlander 💖💌💜

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@Snowie 💚🤍

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@Lee82 wrote:

I hear you @outlander but you have to keep on going. You have to keep trying and keep existing. You are too young too beautiful inside to give up. You deserve happiness, peace and love little one.


What @Lee82 said.

I know it's the hardest thing, to keep on existing when it's so utterly and terribly painful. I can relate - I once spent 3 years intensely suicidal and not sleeping. I stayed in bed for 3 years. I really feel for you so much, @outlander . And you too, @Lee82 . If it's any comfort at all, I'm really glad I survived.

Wishing so much for some relief from the pain (emotional, mental and physical) for you both.

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Hey @outlander,

I can hear that you're struggling to cope at the moment. That's no good at all. I'm sending you an email to check-in, so keep an eye out on your inbox 🙂

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im so sorry youve been through this mess too @NatureLover its really so hard isnt it

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thanks @Former-Member i have responded

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Yes, it is, it's impossibly hard @outlander . I wanted you to know that I understand.

Sending you a gentle hug.

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thank you @NatureLover im sorry you understand though.

Hugs back to you too.

How are you going today?


@Snowie how are you?


@Sans911
@Maggie

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@outlander I'm going better today, thanks. I don't feel overwhelmed for the first time in 7 days. You really helped last night, thank you.

Thanks for your hugs. Hoping that tonight might be a bit of a better night for you.

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im glad your going better today and your not feeling overwhelmed @NatureLover
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