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Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2017, 8:11 pm AEST

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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outlanderSenior Contributor21 June 2020, 6:53 pm AEST

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@Sans911 hows your day been?

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SnowieSenior Contributor21 June 2020, 8:16 pm AEST

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Goodnight @outlander hun. Didn't get much sleep last night so an early night for me.

Will check in on you tomorrow 💌

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outlanderSenior Contributor21 June 2020, 8:17 pm AEST

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Goodnight @Snowie 💖💜💚❤💙

I hope you can get some sleep tonight sis

Edited-cause i posted before i was finished

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Sans911Senior Contributor21 June 2020, 8:27 pm AEST

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@outlander - evening lil Sis

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outlanderSenior Contributor21 June 2020, 8:28 pm AEST

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Its good to see you @Sans911
How has your day been?

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Sans911Senior Contributor21 June 2020, 8:46 pm AEST

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Bit of a flat day here @outlander. More fatigue related than mood. Just been chatting with my foster sister on the phone.

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outlanderSenior Contributor21 June 2020, 8:50 pm AEST

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Feeling quite fatigued here too sis @Sans911
Im watching mrs browns boys and trying to get some more of my aunts crochet blanket finished. Its taking forever to do.

I hope the chat with your sister was good... ?
Did you get up to much else today?

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Sans911Senior Contributor21 June 2020, 9:39 pm AEST

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No, nothing else today at all @outlander. Spent most of in bed. What about you?

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outlanderSenior Contributor21 June 2020, 9:42 pm AEST

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it was a busy day @Sans911 i couldnt sleep so i went down to the horses at 630am and then come back home till about 10. went out with mum and the girls (and her partner but only for about 2 hours cause he had to go to work) had a look at the botanic gardens and also went to see if we could see any whales off the coastline and then went for a walk around a little town. had a look at a few of the smaller shops like the cheap shops and the lolly shops and got a few things from there.
i was exhausted before the day started so im even more tired now but it was a good distraction from all the flashbacks and stressing about some more upcoming tests.

do you have much on tomorrow?

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Sans911Senior Contributor21 June 2020, 9:53 pm AEST

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What is it about the tests that are stressing you @outlander? Is the possible results or the tests themselves?

Even though you were tired, it sounds nice the places you went to. You've mentioned the ocean a few times in your posts. You mustn't live that far away.

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