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not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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@Sans911 💜💜💜

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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Thank you 💖💖💜💜

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Sans911Senior Contributor

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How are going lil Sis @outlander? 💕 💕 💕

Has the pain settled much?

I'm still here with you. 💕 💕 💕 💕 💕 💕 💕 💕 💕

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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Thanks sis much appreciated @Sans911 🙏

pain hasnt settled a whole heap but pain killers have worked enough to make it a little more bearable to hopefully sleep pretty soon too.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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Will you be able to sleep soon too? @Sans911

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Sans911Senior Contributor

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I'm OK @outlander. I just turned out the lights. Didn't get my Milo as Mr A is curled up between my legs.i. I winding down doing some online colouring in.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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That sounds good @Sans911
I dont mind the online colouring in. Hoping you can get some sleep too. Im starting to drift so if i drop out thats why.
Thank you for sitting with me, i feel calmer now 💜💜💜


@Former-Member thank you for being here too. Hope fully you have fallen asleep already too ❤❤❤

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Sans911Senior Contributor

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Goidnight my sweet lil Sis @outlander 💕 💕 💕 💕

Hugs and hugs

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@Sans911 I love the image you described of forum members pulling us back from the edge. Very powerful.

Yes @outlander I fell asleep. But never for long. Glad your pain settled enough to permit some rest. You mentioned an apt yesterday, but you never got to say more. Not sure what apt that was, but happy to listen if you want to talk.

Hope you are both sleeping soundly now. Thanks for including me last night and helping to draw me out of my protective shell. I really needed that. 💕

Sherry

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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im glad you managed some sort of sleep @Former-Member sometimes a few hours is better then nothing hey.
yes, yesterday was tough with the gynae appt. I have some tougher decisions I need to have a think about.

im glad you popped up and said hello and stayed for a while too 💐


morning @Sans911 @Snowie @eth @Bunniekins @Eve7 @NatureLover and everyone 💙💙💙💙💙
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