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not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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Lee82Senior Contributor

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I completely agree with @Former-Member.

you are always there for everyone else it's time we are all here for you. @outlander With pop away too you can really concentrate on some self care.
❤️

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Unknown userMember

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Well Sherry and Lee beat me, but I agree with them little one. How can we support you. @outlander

@Lee82 @Former-Member

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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I dont really know what i need anymore @Former-Member @Lee82 @Former-Member @Snowie

@Snowie i read your original post, im so sorry its been a hard day for you. Sending heaps of love and hugs sis ❤💜

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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im going to go for a shower, make a tea and watch a movie till bed time for now.

thanks everyone for the support

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MaggieSenior Contributor

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@outlander 💜💜💜💜

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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@Maggie 💜💜

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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im sorry @Lee82 I don't want to burden you or anyone on the other thread or here really.
I don't have anyone, and its exacerbated even more at how alone i am. ive been in bed all except 4 hours today, not sure how long il be up before im back in bed either. i ate dinner and im verping and its gross.

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NatureLoverSenior Contributor

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Sorry to hear, @outlander ... I had hoped it might be good to have time to yourself, but it's obviously not 😞

You're not burdening us, we care about you.

But if you don't feel like talking, that's totally fine of course. 🙂

Thinking of you and sending wishes for some healing both physically and mentally.

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Lee82Senior Contributor

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You are not a burden to anyone of us here @outlander we all care about you hun.
whos to say that sleeping all day today is not a good thing. Perhaps that is just what your body and mind has needed. How long has it been since you have had a good night sleep. You must be exhausted. Even if you weren't asleep in bed at least you had the time to rest. Don't be so hard on yourself. A few days in bed before all the craziness starts again isn't such a bad thing.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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thanks @Lee82 @NatureLover
i know you guys care, that's also why i don't want to burden you.
im waiting to see if the local dr service will do homes visits. the pain that's flared up after eating had me in tears for a minute, it hasn't been that bad for a few days-probably cause i really haven't eaten anything.

i hate that my brain is so stupid and complicated that i don't even know what i need/want. i feel i should already know this esp with all the work ive done on myself to try and get better mentally.
im tired of arguing with my mother and her not listening to me, i cant even tell her whats happening with me now because of the argument we had today.
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