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not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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Thanks Nikki @Former-Member

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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Im sorry im not around much tonight. not really too well atm and having too many thoughts that im trying to gather up.

@Former-Member @Maggie @Lee82 @Former-Member @NatureLover and everyone passing through

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NatureLoverSenior Contributor

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No worries @outlander , just take care of you. Sorry you're not well 😥

Am really hoping things will turn a corner for the better for you soon.

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Unknown userMember

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Just be gentle little one and take your time. We will all be here with you when you are able to be here. Wishing your thoughts would ease a little. @outlander 💜 Nikki

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Unknown userMember

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Yes I thought that was the case @outlander after reading your Worry Room post.

Why dont you log off and have a complete break tonight? You have Pop away for a few days I think?

How about you make me a promise about something for at least the next day? Only be here primarily for your own needs. Forget your official CG duties .. give yourself a night off. Do you think you could do that?

Sweetie, it is def not that I dont want to see you around. But I think you need to concentrate on your own needs right now. And while your Pop is away, it seems a good time to start.

Sherry

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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thanks @NatureLover @Former-Member
I wish they would stop too. im tired of them. tired of feeling sick. tired of everything right now.

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Lee82Senior Contributor

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We are here for you @outlander. Sitting with you my friend. Hope you can find some peace.
💜💙

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NatureLoverSenior Contributor

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I bet you are tired of everything...I wish you could have a deep rest, @outlander . And that the bad thoughts would stop 💔

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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I guess I could.. @Former-Member

@Lee82 @NatureLover

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Unknown userMember

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Okay good @outlander

So lets concentrate on you tonight.

What do YOU need right now. How can we all help YOU?

You need to go totally against your nature here Li'l One .. you arent caring for anyone else at this place in time. You need to concentrate on your own needs for a change.

Sherry

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