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Something’s not right

not coping

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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The appointment didn't go well. the hopes that things might be able to be fixed or even be able to work on getting a bit better is gone.
theres nothing they can do, that I can do, that anyone can do so now I stuck like this. no medications, suppliments, physio, massage, tens machines or any other therapy wont do anything. this is the new life now.

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Oh no, @outlander !

I don't know the details...but it sounds terrible 😞

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Hi @outlander,

I am so sorry to hear that your appointment did not go well. I can hear how grim and dark things are at the moment. I can imagine you are feeling enormous grief at the prospect that there is no further options for you regarding rehabilitation and that this is your new life now.

It sounds like you are feeling incredibly vulnerable at the moment (like the teddy bear in your picture) because of the news you received and the subsequent sense of hopelessness. Do you feel like you need further support at the moment? If so, please do not hesitate to reach out to our SANE Help Centre or to reach out to other services if needed (i.e. Lifeline, Suicide Call Back Service, etc.).

Please take very good care of yourself at this highly difficult and distressing time.

Kindest,

Amour_Et_Psyché

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Oh @outlander I’m so sorry to hear this. Sending 💚💚💚💚💚💚💚💙💙💙💜💜

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💙🧡💙 @outlander 💙🧡💙

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Awwwww gee Li'l One ... thats really rough, and so hard to take. 😞 @outlander

All I want to do right now is gather you up in my arms and give you a big loving hug. No words, just comfort. Really wish I could do that, and reassure you that you will get through this. 💕💕💕

Sherry

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Ohhhh sis @outlander I just read you post.

Lots of love and hugs sweetheart. That is not the news you wanted to hear.

Sitting with you hun 💜💌

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Worried about you, @outlander ...sending hugs ❤

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Hey @mudsum just checking in, wondering how you are travelling today? As with @Former-Member we hear you and ready to listen if you need.

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I am so sorry that this was the outcome little one. Nothing I say can take to away your pain or emotional pain and I am sorry for that. Sending you all my love and putting out my hand for you to hold while we sit quietly here.
🌻💖 @outlander 💖🌻

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