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not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2017, 8:11 pm AEST

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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outlanderSenior Contributor03 June 2020, 9:55 pm AEST

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That really sucks @Snowie i was hoping you mightve been able to go too.
Hows your day been otherwise?

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outlanderSenior Contributor03 June 2020, 9:57 pm AEST

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@Former-Member whatd you get up to today?

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Unknown userMember03 June 2020, 10:07 pm AEST

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Nothing special @outlander

Morning apt for hubby. Then running backwards and forwards into town for his lunch with 6 mates. So I was on runaround, dropoff and pickup duties.

He's in bed asleep again now, after sleeping since I got him home at 2.30pm. Woke him for dinner 6pm, but that was it. Kinda relieved.

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outlanderSenior Contributor03 June 2020, 10:09 pm AEST

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Busy day! @Former-Member sounds like you mightve been able to wind down abit tonight/rest today while hes been in bed?
Is little Holly sitting by your side tonight?

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Unknown userMember03 June 2020, 10:21 pm AEST

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Thats true @outlander ... I did get some time to myself this arvo, which was nice. And yes ... ha ha, of course Holly is by my side. The only time she isnt, is when hubby loses it and starts smashing things in a rage. It scares her and she runs and hides under the bed. Shes a sensitive little girl.

I think you have another busy day tomorrow @outlander ?

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outlanderSenior Contributor03 June 2020, 10:28 pm AEST

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She is a little cutie @Former-Member those dogs are pretty timid but really good company.
Does she need a coat for winter? I know their natural coat isnt thick.

Im really glad you got some time to yourself today too.

Yes another busy day tomorrow seeing the new dental surgeon for the second opinion. Plus horses. Im resting more and more now, pains and probably lack of nutrition atm is making me quite tired and out of energy very quickly.

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Unknown userMember03 June 2020, 11:42 pm AEST

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Sorry @outlander battery went dead on me. Now too tired to respond. Talk in morning.

Night 😴

Sherry

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Unknown userMember04 June 2020, 8:45 am AEST

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Good morning little one, I hope your appointment goes well and the horses 🐴 behave themselves. Hoping you can rest when you need to and I really hope you can manage a cuppa and a little food to fuel your poor body. Sending all my love and some hugs too. @outlander

Hello 👋 to everyone who might be passing through here this morning

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ethSenior Contributor04 June 2020, 9:10 am AEST

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Thinking of you @outlander and hoping things go gently for you today.

Good morning to everyone else here today.

Hope it's one of the better days for everyone.

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NatureLoverSenior Contributor04 June 2020, 9:17 am AEST

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Thinking of you @outlander , good luck with your busy day and the second dental opinion. Also with hopefully managing to get some food down.

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