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not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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yeah @NatureLover
only a few pieces of rockmelon and 2 cups of tea in the day.
today I had 2 cups of tea and something alittle more then rockmelon. I guess it could be classed as a small but better dinner so I can manage that.

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Eve7Senior Contributor

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Sounds good to me. I’m not supposed to leave my room but I’ll ask the nurse if she’ll get me one ☕️

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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sounds good @Eve7

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NatureLoverSenior Contributor

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I'm sorry to hear you're suffering bad thoughts, @outlander . What usually works when you're having them...anything?

And do you drink your tea with sugar and /or some type of milk?

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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I usually have 1 sugar and lactose free skim milk (or at least skim milk cause I cant have full cream) @NatureLover

what about you? do you have yours in a particular way?

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Unknown userMember

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Yes @outlander thats right ... need to keep a low profile until he cools down.

It has indeed been a big day, and you did so well to get all that you needed to, done. Your pops birthday is tomorrow .. nice. Will he remember? I dont think its a problem if you dont get a card until tomorrow. Any chance to sneak out early to pick one up? Is Pop an early riser?

Good that you dont have to sibling-sit tonight. You really need a bit of time out to try and relax a bit.

Any idea whats causing your bad thoughts tonight?

How is that cuppa going .. do you need a topup?

Sherry 💕

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NatureLoverSenior Contributor

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I'm glad to hear you have one sugar and some milk in your tea - that means you're getting a bit more of something to live off @outlander .

It doesn't matter as much for me what I have in my tea...but I have one sugar and soy or oatmilk.

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Unknown userMember

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Hey sweetie, I am sitting quietly with you.
🌻💖 @outlander 💖🌻

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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im not sure if he will remember @Former-Member he will probably realise it and im hoping that others will see him too. I know mum will be here in the morning before taking the littlest one to school. I have a present for him at least so I can give him that. he is usually up about 730 and I honestly cant see me getting up any earlier then that atm esp since I don't sleep till late/early morning.

I had half a cup but it went cold. pops making another one atm so ill try again but not sure ill be able to have much more.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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I don't mind almond milk occasionally @NatureLover I haven't tried soy or oatmilk yet. I find some of those milks have a weird taste or aftertaste. I suppose after a while you wouldn't notice it.
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