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not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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outlanderSenior Contributor

Re: not coping

thanks @Former-Member

would you like a cup of tea with us?

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NatureLoverSenior Contributor

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@outlander dairy milk has a strange taste to me now in tea and coffee.

Sorry you couldn't manage the whole cup of tea.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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its ok @NatureLover
im ok with half a cup, ive made a fresh cup now and will try and have some more of it but im not overly bothered if I cant.

are you a little less overwhelmed today?

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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@Former-Member how did hubbys appt go today?

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NatureLoverSenior Contributor

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Yes, thanks, @outlander - I made myself spend less time on the forums today.

How are your bad thoughts now?

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Hi all

@outlander thanks for keeping me in the loop. Wow, you sure have a lot going on at the moment but I am glad that you are getting some answers.

@outlander @Former-Member @NatureLover @Former-Member @Eve7 lots of love and hugs 💌💌💌

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Unknown userMember

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It was only a hearing test today @outlander . He has pulsatile tinnitus and trying to find a solution to help reduce its affects. Plus he is also quite deaf, which he denies. They agreed he's deaf, which hes very annoyed about. He now sees a specialist audiologist in two weeks for some further tests etc.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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im glad to hear your not as overwhelmed @NatureLover its good to take some time out for yourself or just limit yourself to certain amounts of threads if your overwhelmed, that is called good self care.

they are still there, they've been around all day. they aren't all sh/si urges though its a lot of worries about what the results might bring, what the next steps would be, how the future might look, who would be here to do the horses and pop and the kids if I wasn't here.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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hey @Snowie 👋☕🧡
want to join us for a cuppa or something?

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NatureLoverSenior Contributor

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Yes, I'm learning my limits too with how much I have to give. I don't want to burn out. @outlander

Yes, I can understand you would have a lot of worries about the future. I'm glad it's not all SI /SH thoughts...

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