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not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2017, 8:11 pm AEST

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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Eve7Senior Contributor01 June 2020, 6:29 pm AEST

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Oh @outlander , that is so much but it will be good to eventually get some answers. Your Dr is certainly a man of action and I’m so glad there won’t be any charges so that’s a few less worries. 💙🧡💙

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outlanderSenior Contributor01 June 2020, 6:42 pm AEST

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yeah I will be ok @Former-Member
go enjoy dinner xo

this one is my specialist @Eve7 my actual gp is bloody hopeless lol.
yeah hopefully these tests will reveal some sort of answers, thatll be good finally

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NatureLoverSenior Contributor01 June 2020, 6:45 pm AEST

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Are you OK, @outlander ? I'm here if you want to talk or want someone to sit with you for a while...

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outlanderSenior Contributor01 June 2020, 6:48 pm AEST

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thank you @NatureLover that's lovely of you. sitting would be good for now, its just been a big day

would you like a cup of tea (or whatever you like?)

@Eve7 and everyone your welcome to come and join us for a cuppa too if you would like

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NatureLoverSenior Contributor01 June 2020, 6:54 pm AEST

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Yes, I'd like a cuppa tea thanks 🙂 @outlander

You've had a huge day - well done for getting through it. I know it's not over, and you have to babysit till midnight I think...

Were you able to eat or drink anything today?

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Unknown userMember01 June 2020, 6:55 pm AEST

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Here now @outlander

Dinner done. Had to escape to another room anyway. Mr Sherry slammed his plate down in a raging temper. Something on TV that riled him up .. my fault of course. Managed to salvage dinner anyway.

So Li'l One .. its been a hectic day. And more to follow. Really proud of you for achieving as much as you have done today.

Sherry 😀

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outlanderSenior Contributor01 June 2020, 6:57 pm AEST

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thankfully I don't have to babysit till midnight now @NatureLover I only had them till 530 so im home now and have had a small dinner and about to have a cup of tea as well.

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NatureLoverSenior Contributor01 June 2020, 7:00 pm AEST

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That's great news, @outlander ! Am happy to hear that after your big day you have the evening at a quieter pace.

And I'm happy you've been able to eat dinner. I'm a food addict (for real) so I can't imagine having to eat as little as you have to manage with. I don't know how you can function - yesterday all you had was a few pieces of cut up rockmelon all day, I think 😞

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Unknown userMember01 June 2020, 7:00 pm AEST

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Well then @outlander ... lets have a cup of tea together. ☕ I would welcome the company. 💜

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outlanderSenior Contributor01 June 2020, 7:04 pm AEST

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hmm im glad you managed dinner and got out of there @Former-Member needs some time to cool off again by the sounds of it..

it has been a big day, I got basically everything that I needed to do done and I don't have to babysit.
I keep having bad thoughts though.

the only thing I didn't get was a birthday card for pop for tomorrow. im usually more well organised then this. I can pick one up for him tomorrow morning though.

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