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not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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SnowieSenior Contributor

Re: not coping

I'm not sure if you will get this

@outlander @Sans911

I hope you both have a really nice Christmas in whatever you are doing. Whether you are with family/friends or by yourself, you will always have a place in my heart.

I know how hard the next few days can be, so just leaning lots of 💗💗 for you both

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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i know a couple of places id like to go @Jynx but looks like it wont be on the cards for at least another year


thank you @Snowie ive been in hospital with not the best prognosis so have been isolating myself to try and cope.
got through christmas so that is good

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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oh dear @outlander

I'm sorry to hear that you've been in hospital hon. Thats not good news at all.

Christmas can be so hard to get through. Glad you got through it

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Eve7Senior Contributor

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Sorry you’ve been in hospital and not received a good prognosis @outlander

You are often in my thoughts hon 💙💙

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AppleblossomSenior Contributor

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Gentle hugs @outlander was thinking of you. Wondering how you are doing...

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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thanks @Snowie @Eve7 @Appleblossom
its been quite the rollercoaster the last few days but im glad to be home for christmas.
have some more treatments coming up across the next few weeks and big one in may which will hopefully get things back on track.
im pretty exhausted atm and haven really even been home between hospital, christmas celebrations and work. ill be looking forward to Sunday when i have the day off and can have a sleep in and rest day!

in a few weeks ill be starting a double diploma as well so thats scary and exciting plus a recent promotion at work too.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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it feels pretty lonley and isolating here at the moment

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AppleblossomSenior Contributor

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@outlander

That is so much!

No wonder you feel exhausted.

congrats on your promotion and new course of study

I hope you really enjoy DEEP rest tomorrow

support button ..on the blink...

hugz

apple

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Eve7Senior Contributor

Re: not coping

Congratulations on your study and promotion @outlander

Im sorry you’re feeling so isolated as that’s an awful feeling. Always here for you.

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Hi dear @outlander

I hope the treatments coming up do help you.

Well done on doing the double diploma. I hope it really goes well for you.

Congrats on your promotion at work. No doubt it was very much overdue and very much deserved.

I hope today has been kind to you

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