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not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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outlanderSenior Contributor

Re: not coping

its a place i would like to go @Appleblossom @Snowie

hey @tyme im going ok at the moment. back at work this week and weekend then a few days off for surgery next week. think some time at home is agood idea but not sure how ill go being by myself constantly

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tymeModerator

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Hey @outlander , I'm sorry I haven't been keeping up. I feel like I've missed a chunk out of what's been happening for you.

The last time we spoke, you still had the moon boot and you were either waiting for a procedure or recovering from a procedure.

So you've had more time off and only just returned to work this week?

I really hope you are okay. It's sounding pretty hectic.

We've missed seeing you around.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

Re: not coping

i ended up in hospital for psych reasons @tyme im back home for the last 2 weeks then found it difficult to come back.
having the procedure thats been put off now that the clotting issue i had is resolved/managed.
i am back at work but very selective on who i can work with

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Shaz51Senior Contributor

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Sending you lots of hugs @outlander

Great to see you xxx

@tyme , @Appleblossom , @Snowie , @Eve7

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AppleblossomSenior Contributor

Re: not coping

@outlander hugs

@Shaz51 @Snowie @Eve7

@tyme

Healthy art

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tymeModerator

Re: not coping

Awwww @Appleblossom , that's beautiful! Thank you!

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Shaz51Senior Contributor

Re: not coping

Aww @Appleblossom 😍 and you are beautiful too ❤️

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JynxModerator

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Aww @outlander! So good to hear from you. Sounds like it's been a rollercoaster lately, but I'm glad to hear you're prioritising your needs and not taking on work that feels too heavy right now. And heck yes to a little beachy getaway!! I find it really helpful to have something to look forward to - especially when I'm going through it. Do you know where you'd wanna go?

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outlanderSenior Contributor

Re: not coping

thank you @Shaz51
@Appleblossom the artwork is beautiful

@Jynx i do know where i want to go its just whether ill be able to do it financially. im hoping for the end of next year but i guess that will depend on affordability, my health and whatever comes up in the meantime

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JynxModerator

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@outlander Always the way of it hey, everything can feel so up in the air and make it hard to plan ahead. Where would you wanna go, if you feel like sharing?

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