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not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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outlanderSenior Contributor

Re: not coping

thanks @Appleblossom @Eve7 @Snowie

i do wonder if now is the right time to be promoted and start study but i guess time will only tell but i think itll give me something else to think about besides all the treatments/side effects etc. trying to keep some positivity in there
ended up called into work so im working a double now till tomorrow morning but i have tomorrow off so i am looking forward to just chilling out

how are you guys going?

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SnowieSenior Contributor

Re: not coping

Hi dear @outlander

Wishing you a nice restful day today.

With your promotion and study, I guess all you can do is give it a try. Knowing you, you will excell in both areas.

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AppleblossomSenior Contributor

Re: not coping

@outlander

Keeping positivity is not always easy, but we do our best.

I did the 'adopt roles in music, work and sport and study'.

Yes I have a high tolerance of being talked over, corrected, contradicted, and conflict avoidant, but have been grateful for the outlet of the forum in the last few years. Writing is easier for me than speaking.

Thank you

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AdJk7B2b_R8

Not sure what you think of this kind of thing??

I dont agree with everything he says, but find it interesting enough to listen occasionally.

@Snowie @Eve7 @Jynx @Shaz51

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Shaz51Senior Contributor

Re: not coping

Thinking of you lots @outlander ,and sitting with you ❤️

@Appleblossom , @Snowie , @Eve7

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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thank you @Snowie @Appleblossom @Shaz51
another hospital admission for me unfortunatley but i got home last night and was up late enough to watch some of the fireworks to welcome the new year in.
today i have a day off and watching one of my favourite movies.
the flu has taken hold abit but i knew it was coming cause all the kids i look after have had it so was bound to happen.

wishing you all a happy new year!

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Hi dear @outlander

I'm glad you were able to be home last night.

Not great about hospital or the flu. Kids love to spread it around.

I hope 2026 brings lots of joy for you hon

Sending lots of 💕💕

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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@Shaz51 @Appleblossom wishing you too a great 2026.

Hoping last night was good with whatever you did

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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thanks @Snowie i hope youve had a good day

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AppleblossomSenior Contributor

Re: not coping

@outlander Good to hear from you. Glad you are home even tho the flu is hanging around. What did you watch? I have been looking a bit at movies lately.

I dozed off early last night, but cooked a bit to make today special. My lobster mornay went over well.

@Snowie @Shaz51 @Eve7 Happy New Year to you all...

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outlanderSenior Contributor

Re: not coping

ive been watching a few tv series @Appleblossom
ones a baking show called 'is it cake' theyve just released some new seasons for halloween and christmas so ive been watching those
Schitts creek is a comedy
and then ive been catching up on all the latest crime docuseries
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