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Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Good night @outlander @rav3n

Struggling to keep my eyes open. Had meds so hoping to get some sleep.

Talk tomorrow 💕💕

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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sorry i got caught up watching married at first sight!

goodnight @Snowie i hope you sleep well

@rav3n i havent been able to afford supports so i only had them the first and second day. ive been on on my own since

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AppleblossomSenior Contributor

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Gentle Hugs @outlander

it’s important to get to the bottom of causes

fingers crossed this specialist is good

thanks for checking in on me

I am glad you are having some company even if it’s mainly online

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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thanks @Appleblossom i have hopes with this new specialist.
having some company is nice.
i did go out with a work colleague the other day. they had to pick me up and drop me off cause i couldnt drive but it was a nice night

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AppleblossomSenior Contributor

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Great news that you are socialising after work

with someone prepared to go a little out of their way for you

go you @outlander

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outlanderSenior Contributor

Re: not coping

i am back at work tonight @Appleblossom
first shift back. still recovering but going to take some pain relief with me and rest as much as possible

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AppleblossomSenior Contributor

Re: not coping

Find the sweet spot between rest and work @outlander

don’t push yourself too much

I a logging off but really lovely to talk in real time with you

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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definently i think ill focus on helping catch up on some admin stuff @Appleblossom

chat tomorrow, hope you have a good night

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rav3nSenior Contributor

Re: not coping

sorry just realised i missed a bunch of posts!! good night, hope you sleep better tonight!! @Snowie

@outlander i keep seeing lil clips of MAFs, and it seems so good!! do you have a fav/lease fav couple?

and hi there @Appleblossom how's your night going?

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Hi @outlander

I hope your first shift back at work went ok hon and you are catching up on some sleep.

Wishing you a good day today.

Hi also @rav3n @Appleblossom Hoping you day goes well too

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