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not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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That sounds like a lot for one week @outlander for Wed, Thurs, Fri hon.

Just a few appointments for you! Hopefully you can get some downtime too.

I'm hoping that she is a bit better by tomorrow.

No not many free days with kids! It is getting easier with D driving. In October S will be 18 so driving too.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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yeah ive had to put a few off during recovery @Snowie so catching up on them all.
i have a new specilaist on thursday who has picked up a possible reason to something that keeps putting me in hospital but theres never any 'reason' at the time so its abit nerve wracking to know if the tests he ordered ad i done weeks ago has shown a reason or eliminated/confirmed thoughts

october isnt to far away really is it! we're almost in march already

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rav3nSenior Contributor

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thanks for the tag here @outlander and hey @Snowie !! you both sound like you've got busy schedules and appointments coming up, hope it's not too overwhelming. can't believe march is next week!? feels like this years off to a quick start

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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march actually starts at the end of this week @rav3n crazy hey!

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Maybe a reason might be good @outlander At least you will know instead of not knowing why it puts you in hospital you will have an answer.

Hi @rav3n every week seems busy atm.

How has your day been?

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rav3nSenior Contributor

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oh yeah!! keep forgetting that feb only has 28 days haha @outlander

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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it is crazy @rav3n its gone quick


@Snowie i can only hope there is some answers this time

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rav3nSenior Contributor

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@Snowie i hear that, the transition from holiday to home-routine mode was not as smooth this time around! my day's been alright, didn't sleep too well recently but so far i've managed not to get too cranky haha. how about you?

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rav3nSenior Contributor

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@outlander how's your recovery going? have the support workers been coming around still?

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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@outlander I hope too that you can get some answers or at least be able to eliminate somethings.

Not sleeping either @rav3n Too much in my head. Feels like the holiday was months ago!!

I hope you are able to sleep better in the coming days. Lack of sleep can affect us so much.

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