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Something’s not right

not coping

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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this notification seemed to work but abit delayed @tyme maybe it was just a delay or something
yeah i have reduced the time spent doing the independent stuff. i really only did it for 2 people but since i work for 2 companies now i havent had the time tbh and the clients i had i didnt really want to work with. not my area of interest and was abusing the system for support. '

i will be on tomorrow 🙂

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is anyone around?

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Hey @outlander

Not sure if you are still on line.

Here if you need

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hey @Snowie

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Hey @outlander , How are you?

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not so great today @tyme

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Physically? Mentally? Both? @outlander

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abit of both @tyme
im not use to spending so much time at home and by myself
just got the car fixed after so many dramas today
not use to not being able to do alot for myself as well. showers are a challange, driving is a challange. went for a little walk and it flared up pain from the surgery so had to stop.
i have to go back to work next week i have no sick leave left and debt collectors keep calling and calling it never ends because my hardship payments are coming to an end of the contact so has to be renwed but its just alot

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Awww @outlander , I'm so sorry you have been hit with these challenges as you are recovering. Sure sounds like a huge headache.

Do you have payment plans in place for your debts?

I hope things improve for you.

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yes i have payment plans for everything but it never seems enough @tyme
because it was only set up for 3 months it means those hardship contracts are currently coming to an end so i getting all the calls reminding me to pay x amount or renew hardships etc. i can never seem to get myself out of debt because of my health and now such expensive rent.
theres no help for those in debt. its ridicudlous.

ndis also declined application again so ive had a mass argument with them because all the evidence they are claiming i need is all in the reports and i pointed every single thing out to them and its still not good enough.
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