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not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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tymeModerator

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Hey @outlander . I'm dropping in to say that I'm thinking about you and hope you are okay.

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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@outlander 💗💗

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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would anyone be around? i could just use a friend

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rav3nSenior Contributor

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hey @outlander i'm around 💙

what's been happening for you?

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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i just need a friend i guess @rav3n so many people are just angry at me. i cant seem to do much right.
the ndis declined another application so just another failure to add to the list.

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Eve7Senior Contributor

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I’m here too @outlander 💜💜

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rav3nSenior Contributor

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happy to be your friend and lend a shoulder to lean on @outlander

sounds like combination of things have been quite overwhelming for you, i'm so sorry you've had to deal with that. these rejections or low moments are never a whole reflection of you. totally get that it's hard not to take these things personally, but you are only human, and you deserve kindness 💙

sitting with you

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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thank you @Eve7 @rav3n

someone who i thought was a friend got angry at me because of the ndis decision and when i said i wanted to give up and that im just tired of fighting they told me to give up then. they made some snarky comments about my behaviour and making comments like if you needed support then they wouldve just approved you.

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rav3nSenior Contributor

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@outlander oh wow. i'm really sorry your friend treated you like that... pretty shocked he'd say that to you. sounds quite dismissive and hurtful. a true friend would take their time to listen and understand rather than jump to conclusions right? do you have other friends who are more understanding?

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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i dont think they really wanted to be a friend @rav3n its usually one sided for the last year or so. doesnt really matter what the offer was like to go have lunch or something there was always some excuse. text msgs were random and i often didnt know how to respond.
i feel like they only wanted to be around me when i was paying them for some help.

i dont really have anyone else. i speak to work people but none that are friends and only work related things. i spend more time with clients or by myself.
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