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not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2017, 8:11 pm AEST

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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Eve7Senior Contributor03 Feb 2025, 9:19 pm AEDT

Re: not coping

That’s tough @outlander and I’m sorry that happened. You deserve better.

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rav3nSenior Contributor03 Feb 2025, 9:29 pm AEDT

Re: not coping

@outlander ahh yep, definitely seems like a friendship red flag if it's been one-sided. from what you've mentioned, i don't think they deserve your friendship. you definitely deserve a friend who treats you like an equal and is respectful. i've had a similar situation in the past where i've accepted bad friends into my life cos i had no one else... turns out no company really is better than bad company. but just know you're not alone, we care about you heaps and are here for you. sending you hugs 💙

i'll be heading off for the night soon, but please don't hesitate to reach out to the community. i'll chat with you soon, hope your night gets better.