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not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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I cant @Snowie at least not till midnight and im still to scared to go. sometimes I really wish I had someone here that would come with me that goes for more then reasons beyond making themselves look good.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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im sorry I don't want to worry anyone, I should be braver and stronger then this

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Sans911Senior Contributor

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Rubbish @outlander to your last post. You are stronger and braver than most people I know. Sitting here with you lil Sis. I wish I could so so much more for you. 💕 💕 💕 💕 💕

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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You are one of the bravest and strongest people I know @outlander who has to deal with so much. I know you are scared to go but perhaps you might get the care and answers you need hun. If it was anyone else you would tell them to go but I know how hard it is to take our own advice.

what would you say to me sweetheart? Thats what you need to do for yourself.

💜

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NatureLoverSenior Contributor

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@outlander sending you a hug (if that's OK? Please ignore if not).

I wish your difficult situation would improve somehow.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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I don't understand why I find it so hard to go or to speak to mum (well I kinda do with her :face_with_rolling_eyes: ) I know what id say to any of you if it was reversed, whys it so hard to follow our own advice.
thank you for sitting with me, I wish you were really here.

@Sans911 @Snowie

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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thank you @NatureLover a hug would be really lovely

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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We are there in spirit @outlander

Will always be by your side sweetheart.

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Sans911Senior Contributor

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It's always easier coming from someone else @outlander. They don't have the emotional connection that we do.

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Lee82Senior Contributor

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I am so sorry your not getting the support you need from family members hun especially your mum who should be there as our protectors. You are always there to support others but no one seems to be there for you. That is not right babe. I wish there was more we could do here for you. But I am sitting here with you supporting you the only way I can babe. ❤️ @outlander

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