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not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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ethSenior Contributor

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Tired now @outlander after another session with my bro restoring and resetting things on my phone and computer. Going to have lunch and a rest. Take care xx

PS sorry to hear it's so hard for you to speak to your mother. She needs to know, and to take some of the pressure off you.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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im sorry about you getting hacked @eth having to change everything and go through that process is overwhelming and anxiety provoking too. im glad bro has been helping you out.

@eth i wondered if i could ask you something abit more personal but ill tag you to another thread but only if you ok with it

yeah i know she does at some point, its just hard to deal with the response i usually get.
i had to be firm today and say no to overnight stays for her work. theres several other shifts she can take and i already told her im not doing overnight stays for her to work. it was really hard to do and its made it even harder now to try and tell her

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NatureLoverSenior Contributor

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I don't know where you find time for yourself @outlander ... 😞

Well done on investigating 4 other gastroenterologists. I hope one of the remaining 2 might be cheaper.

I am good today thanks as I have a working phone again. The NBN is down and yesterday my phone stopped working. It was scary having no connections at all! But the NBN fault technician is coming tomorrow afternoon.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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i did read you were having lots of trouble with internet and phones, so glad you got them working @NatureLover its so hard with no technology isn't it! im glad your okay though

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NatureLoverSenior Contributor

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Thanks. I hope the rest of your day goes OK or as well as possible, @outlander .

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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thank you

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Lee82Senior Contributor

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I hope you don't mind me asking but why you too scared to go to the Ed? I think @Sans911 also mentioned that if you go there presenting with these symptoms they may run a few tests that would normally take months and a lot of money to do. It's just not right that you are suffering so much with all this pain with no real direction as to what to do. I feel like more needs to be done by the medical department.
I am so sorry you have to put up with all this as well as all the other responsibilities you have. You are far too young to be dealing with so much honey. Having said that though you do an amazing job with everything. You get up each and everyday and tackle it with everything you got. You are an inspiration babe.
@outlander

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ethSenior Contributor

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I wish I could do it for you @outlander I'd certainly give her a piece of my mind! (odd expression that one isn't it but you know what I mean).

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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its so hard 😞 everything just hurts from my headaches and teeth to the burst cyst to my stomach issues. ive taken pain relief but its fighting a battle from 4 angles so im not sure its going to do much.
I cant go to emergency because I have the kids till midnight and im just to scared to go there. I tried to tell mum, I brought up the subject and then said I need to see a gastroenterologist and that I need an endoscopy and that Ive been trying to find someone whose cheaper. no replies. silence. now im dreading when shes home. she didn't ask the reasons just went silent.

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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it certainly is hard for you hun @outlander

If you need to go to hospital please go sweetie, you need to make sure you are alright. Your health is so important.

Am sitting with you hun 💜💜

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