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not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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MaggieSenior Contributor

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@outlander Thinking of you right now. Sending 💙💙💙💙

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Good morning sweetie, did you get to the hospital? Are you ok? @outlander

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NatureLoverSenior Contributor

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@outlander I've just caught up with your news, my technology went down yesterday. I'm sorry that you've had a cyst burst on top of everything else, oh my gosh. I hope you were able to get to the hospital? Worried about you... 😞

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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Thanks @Maggie @Lee82 @Former-Member @NatureLover 💙💜💛

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Lee82Senior Contributor

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Thinking of you @outlander I really hope you are on and have been given the care that need. ❤️

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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Thanks @Lee82 i spoke with the gp and she didn't seem overly concerned so will just have to keep an eye on it i guess. my other stomach issues are rather bad today too but to scared to go to ed and to scared to speak to my mother. gastroenterologists are so expensive and i haven't heard anything about the loan yet either so am stressing abit. waiting games really hard.

i spoke with my aged care though and they've put in a few refferrals at least but it might take abit of time to get things put into place with the pandemic happening atm.

i have the kids again today and the horses, but i think ill need to try and rest abit more since ive been busy this morning.

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ethSenior Contributor

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Thinking of you @outlander

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NatureLoverSenior Contributor

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Sounds like you have so much on your plate @outlander . 😞 I agree, waiting is hard. Good luck with your busy day and the pain levels and getting enough time for yourself...

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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Thanks @eth
Struggling a little today so trying to do some self care things.

How are you?

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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Thanks @NatureLover
ive only got the horses but should only take me half hour to do and then the kids from 430 till 1130

heard back from 2 gastroenterologists and they are around the same pricing as the one I was referred to and no payments plans and has to be all up front. still waiting on 2 more to respond hopefully within the next day or 2

how are you?
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