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not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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im still negative atm and trying to keep it that way @Snowie
but even if im negative if hes still positive there isnt anyone that will have him so im not in a good position either way. if hes negative i might be able to have someone care for him for a few hours if he wears a mask

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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It really angers me @outlander that you have no family support around you. Your mum should at least step up and take some responsibility.

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tymeModerator

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I'm glad she doesn't grumble much about going back @outlander .

Any plans for tomorrow?

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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She can’t afford to get covid @Snowie so she can’t have him till he’s negative.


@tyme probably just tv. Cleaning, more washing, crocheting and scrapbooking to pass the time.


My medical things have flared up so I’m experiencing a lot more symptoms. I might need to see if I can get the community nurses to come and do some check ups.
I had a shower hence the delay in replying but it led to a medical episode. I will probably be asleep soon to recover

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Good morning hon @outlander

Hoping you got some sleep last night and today is a little better

Sending 💌💌

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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im sleeping so much @Snowie like more then 10 hours in bed and sleeping right now. i finally have some work i can do from home so i wont be totallt out of work.

pops still positive at this point but the test line is getting lighter but im negative still thankfully. ive had to reshedule monday, they were going to offer telehealth but its the inital consult. they have one for 2 weeks time though so ive just rebooked for then to be safe.

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Glad you are getting some sleep @outlander

Good too that you could reschedule your appointment and you don't have to wait too long to have it.

Just had a psych appt. this morning. Won't speak to her now for about a month.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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it was a4 month wait for this appt so im glad they were accomodating and made it for 2 weeks time instead. hopefully ill be ok to attend wednesdays appts

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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abovepost @Snowie

it sucks you cant see your psych for a so long now. can you be put onto a wait list?

i hope the appt with your mother goes well too and provides some answers

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tymeModerator

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Hey everyone @outlander @Snowie @Eve7 @Emelia8 .

Hope you are all okay. I've read about the wait times @Snowie . Hopefully you can take any cancellations or something.

I'll be on the Peer Group Chat tonight if anyone wants to join tonight. But I'll be back after 🙂

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