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not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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tymeModerator

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Pretty okay @outlander . I hear this are tough for you...

Hugs. I'm here if you want a chat.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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im up for a chat @tyme

dont really feel like talking about me. its to hard and being home is more exhausting then i thought. even without covid my medical conditoons are hard to manage. i just need to be clear for monday its really important and ive waited a long time to see this specialist. then my next 2 important appts arent till the end of the month

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Hi @tyme

Got mums appt. tomorrow.

Spent over an hour doing admission forms.

Mentally exhausted.

But I'm worried about you @outlander I'm guessing you have had no break from it all

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Eve7Senior Contributor

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Hey @outlander I’m interested in how you are.

💙

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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no break at all @Snowie
stuck here 24/7. theres no escape. constantly cleaning after an adult child wo touches everything so constanlty disinfecting. washing. cooking. cleaning or hibernating. trying to stay away as much as possible. my own conditions flared up so its making things harder then it needs to be.

i do hope tomorrow goes ok. o know the wait has been so long to see the geriatrician

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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hey @Eve7 exhausted.

how are you going?

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tymeModerator

Re: not coping

All good @outlander .

I'm just trying to get back to routine after the kids have returned to school...

It's been a transition and everyone's been grumpy.... lol. You probably don't need to hear how grumpy we've all been lol.

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tymeModerator

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Hope you have a break @Snowie , and that everything goes well with the admission.

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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I hope you can make your appt's @outlander They are really important for you to be there.

I'm sorry there's been no break for you.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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oh i do remember those days @tyme im glad my sisters have mostly outgrown that. the youngest sister is a typical teen but otherwise doesnt grumble about going back to much
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