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Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Sorry hon, fell asleep last night early @outlander

I know it's not your home so you would probably sometimes feel like a stranger in it.

Can you at least make your room a safe and tranquil place for you? I know you have probably already tried this.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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even my room feels uncomfortable @Snowie half the time once pops gone to bed i come and sleep out on the lounge instead. i even brought a new and bigger bed new bedding etc and it hasnt made a difference

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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That must be hard then @outlander

I hope the couch is comfy at least.

Have you heard back from ndis or is it a long wait to hear from them?

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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no apparently ndis is taking up to 6 months at the moment @Snowie so it might be a while before i hear anything

i did finish one more tafe assignment though. just have 2 more to go now

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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It seems like everything is a long wait, especially when it comes to government agencies.

Have been waiting since last July to finally get an appointment to get Mum dementia accessed.

I don't know why everything has to take so long.

Good work for finishing of your assignment hon

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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there was new changes coming in so not sure if thats what the hold up is for so many but youd think they would hire extra staff to clear the backlog if its taking this long for people to hear back or current members to have plan reviews etc.

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Shaz51Senior Contributor

Re: not coping

Sitting with you my friend @outlander ❤️

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Hi my sis @outlander

Sitting here with you hon.

You are never alone 💗💗

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Good morning hon @outlander

Sending love 💗💗💗

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outlanderSenior Contributor

Re: not coping

thank you @Shaz51 @Snowie @Emelia8 @tyme
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