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Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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No doubt that the application is hard @outlander I remember when my Dad was going through the process. I really hope that you can get it sorted out hon, so you can get the support you deserve and need.

Take care of you 💌💌

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Shaz51Senior Contributor

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Sitting with you my sister @outlander 😊❤️

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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thank you @Shaz51

@tyme i have transferred to another company so im not totally jobless now but only have 3 shifts a week and shorter hours . i dont mind the shorter hours esp with the clients ive been given but it also means only working around 16 hours a week now. the other company has completely shut now.

@Snowie its hard to get through everything. i have a meet and greet with a support co-ordinator next week to see if they are a good fit they might be able to help me but its mostly trying to get all the reports together which is proving costly as some i have to pay the initial consult price again as i havent been for over a year to some and they wont write the reports unless i go see them. so im having alot of appts etc at the moment trying to get it all sorted so i can finally get the application through

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tymeModerator

Re: not coping

I hope things work out for you @outlander . I recognise 16 hrs of work is not really sustainable, but it's better than nothing.

Your application sounds like a lot of work. Please let us know if you need anything. Feel free to email us.

I'm here if you need a chat.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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thank you @tyme much appreciated.

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tymeModerator

Re: not coping

Hope today is a bit better for you @outlander

Thinking of you.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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thanks @tyme im working now but its going so slow i feel like ive been here forever.

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Shaz51Senior Contributor

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@Jynx is here now @outlander

When do you finish today

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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not until tonight @Shaz51 still have another couple of hours to go yet

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JynxModerator

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Hey @outlander hope the hours pass swiftly for you. Here for ya if you need 💜

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