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Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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Eve7Senior Contributor

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I hope you are safe tonight @creative_writer

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tymeModerator

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Rest up @Eve7 @outlander

@creative_writer , Please look after yourself. I'm glad you have something to keep you on top of things. Spirituality can really make a huge difference

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creative_writerSenior Contributor

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@Eve7 and @tyme, I know I’m logically safe but doesn’t feel that way. Migraines are never good for mental health, I thought things were turning around yesterday, the pain was more manageable, but it seems to have flared up again today. I feel like I do have a bit of structure to my day because I have things planned to do, I try not to ruminate so much and keep myself occupied, but thoughts have their way of making themselves through eventually

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tymeModerator

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Hearing you @creative_writer .

Physical pain and really throw a spanner in the works and just make the whole world seem that must dimmer.

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creative_writerSenior Contributor

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@tyme, I probably need rest. Let’s hope I am able to sleep in tomorrow

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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its been nice to see some chatter here the last couple of days. ive been reading but i feel like ive had nothing really to say.

you know when your so alone but you also dont know how to be around people. thats where i am right now. everything is hard.

its starting to upset me that the only time i speak to people is when they need me for some reason or they are being paid to listen and be around me ie psychologist or some form of support worker.

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SnowieSenior Contributor

Re: not coping

Hi @outlander hon

Sending lots of hugs and love hon.

You are not alone hon, we are here for you and with you 💕💕

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Hi hon @outlander

Assuming you are busy with work and life. I hope things are easing a little for you

Sending lots of 💕💕💕

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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just really struggling alot at the moment @Snowie the ndis applications are overwhelming and im having to find new specialists to help write reports as some of mine have moved without telling me. ive thankfully found a new physio today, pychologist is finally back next week after 6 weeks off and still have to get the ot report, pain specialist report and find a new neurologist to be able to get one written up. its so time consuming.

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tymeModerator

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Hugs @outlander .

I hope things get better for you. Are you working at the moment or tomorrow? Or have you completely finished up?

I'm here for you.

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