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Something’s not right

not coping

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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Re: not coping

Use that understanding about you enjoying our chats as a way to consider times when you haven't 'ruined' relationships. You have so much in you. In real life, I would hang around you any day because I recognise that it was your priorities that meant you sometimes you weren't available. Yet as humans, we all need to connect and belong.

Hugs @outlander . We are here for you.

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i feel very different on here then in life form @tyme i feel like i can think and speak better in written form then in life form.

i wouldnt want to be around me really but thank you for saying that.

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I agree. Written is easier for me too. However, I found that written form can translate to spoken form once it's practiced enough @outlander

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maybe one day @tyme
i seem to do ok when i support other people just not when i need to support myself

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You're not alone there @outlander

Have you heard that doctors make the worst patients?? That's exactly why. It's easier to support others than it is to receive support ourselves. Me included.

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that is true @tyme

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Hugs @outlander . We don't all go by the same timeline. Don't compare yourself to others.

In your time, you things will happen. That's one of the best things I've learnt. I used to spend hours comparing myself to others, esp when you look on social media.... now? meh? who cares?

Hugs. You mean a lot to us 🙂

I'm hopping offline now. See you in 2024!

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thanks @tyme i hope you have a good night

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Sending lots of love @outlander

💜💜💜

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Hi @outlander, I hope you feel better today. I second what @tyme said. You haven’t ruined any relationships on the forums from what I’ve seen. You are a precious soul, the forums wouldn’t be the same place without you 💖
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