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Something’s not right

not coping

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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Hi @outlander and @Appleblossom, just passing by, I thought I would say Hi. I hope you both had a good day 💖

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hi @creative_writer its nice to see you

hows your day been?

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@outlander, I am doing okay, had a bit of a rough start with physical health but I am doing better. How are you?

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im glad to hear that @creative_writer

things are no going well here. pops exhibiting alot of behaviours including being verbally agressive. ive had a migraine the last 3 days so its not what i need right now. think ill take some of the stronger pain meds and hopefully itll be enough to get rid of it. i dnt want to have to go back to IV therapy to try and manage the migraine again

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Hey @outlander sorry you’re on day 3 of a migraine… that really sucks. I honestly don’t know how you still function with them, when I use to get them I would be bed bound.
have you thought of getting your daith pierced?

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i am use to them @Bow when i get the bad cluster headaches though i dont function at all. i am bed bound and often they put me into hospital. if i dont get these migraines under control theyll turn into cluster headaches and ill end up back there on an IV undergoing another infusion.

i have heard that works but i havent really considered it

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I had never heard of them @Bow so googled it. looks risky.

Hope you are both doing alright. Headaches are a pain I know well.

@outlander No good about pop losing it.

Finding the balance between being cool calm and collected and losing it myself. I was upset and walked off crying yesterday and my son came and got me. He knew I was upset at the whole difficulty of our situation and not at him. Feelings!

Take care Ladies

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@outlander sending love and hope hon ❤️

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I use to get chronic headaches and migraines @Appleblossom @outlander that would wipe me out for a week. I’d then have a week without them and then they would hit me again. I got my daith pierced and I rarely get migraines anymore. I’ve spoken to many that it has helped. No more risk that any other piercing.

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Ahh @Bow so you tried it and it worked for you. That must have been a relief.

I am too old for that now and I tend to think of my headaches as due to pushing myself too hard. I still have head pain and it is chronic. I have had cranial sacral therapy over last 20 years and it probably made the most difference and also singing ... cos the vibrations rattled me brain about in me skull ... not kidding! Learning to use head voice in classical style helped ease up some of the tension.

If it works! Go for it.

@outlander Hope you are travelling well enough.

We dont talk as much as we did, but am still very fond of you.

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