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not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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i really dont enjoy having this condition @tyme it really makes life really hard much harder then it needs to be.

socialising its hard. always much harder for its like my brain doesnt know how to do it. i watch other people and its like i know what i should be doing but i cant. my emotions continue to get in the way. i cant find a happy medium

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Socialising is hard @outlander

Friends on here are much easier to talk too.

Wishing you a better day today hon

Sending love and hugs

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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i feel so empty and alone and tired @Snowie even on here lately

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tymeModerator

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Hey @outlander ,

I'm sorry today is so hard. What's happening on your side?

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creative_writerSenior Contributor

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@outlander 💖🫂. We are here for you

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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every day is hard lately @tyme

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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I'm sorry you feel that way hon @outlander

I know that loneliness. You can be surround by people yet still feel hollow.

Please know that we are here for you

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tymeModerator

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I hear that @outlander that everything is hard.

At this time of year, it seems you are not alone in feeling this way. I wonder if it's the expectations of the world?

Do you have to spend time with your family?

I wish I could take the pain and hurt away from you.

We are here for you.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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thanks @tyme @Snowie @creative_writer


started before this time of year it just seems to be getting worse. worsened even more when i lost my job. there seems to be so many changes and losses and even with some gains i cant seem to pick myself back up.

having a family breakfast here on the day. nothing overly special. i really just want to hide away. i dont really feel like celebrating, i just have nothing in me anymore.

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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This time of the year can be so hard on people @outlander

It's ok to feel this way. It's also ok to do christmas your way hon. If that means hiding away than thats ok.

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