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Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2017, 8:11 pm AEST

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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tymeModerator21 Dec 2023, 7:31 pm AEDT

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You never know until you ask @outlander .

Would you give yourself a chance?

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outlanderSenior Contributor21 Dec 2023, 7:36 pm AEDT

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not right now @tyme
i cant afford more time off work. no one to look after pop. ive already bene in hospitals so much this year already. i need the support but its not accessible to me

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SnowieSenior Contributor22 Dec 2023, 9:09 am AEDT

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@outlander wishing you a better day hon.

Sending love and hugs 💜💜

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outlanderSenior Contributor22 Dec 2023, 5:47 pm AEDT

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i feel like i cant do anything right. im always upsetting someone or making someone angry. i feel like im constantly saying sorry but i dont know how to fix what im doing wrong because nothing ever seems right

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MelbcoffeesnobSenior Contributor22 Dec 2023, 6:02 pm AEDT

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Hey @outlander

It's been a while since we have spoken, hope you're doing ok? Hows life treating you?

You are in a safe space amongst friends here on the forums, so you're not offending me.

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outlanderSenior Contributor22 Dec 2023, 6:13 pm AEDT

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life is hard @Melbcoffeesnob as i ranted above i really cant seem to do anything right for anyone. always in troble for something or upsetting someone or making someone angry

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outlanderSenior Contributor22 Dec 2023, 6:40 pm AEDT

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@tyme

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tymeModerator22 Dec 2023, 6:51 pm AEDT

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I'm sorry to hear this @outlander

Are you any closer to getting pop into care? I remember you mentioned he wanted to go back last time.

You've been supporting him all your life. I see you have such a large heart. At the same time, we need to ensure you are looking after yourself and seeing to your needs. Let someone else look after you. You deserve it.

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outlanderSenior Contributor22 Dec 2023, 6:55 pm AEDT

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i dont know @tyme theres not really any time frame.

the friendships and relationships with people is hard. ive never been good at it. Bordeline i guess has its downfalls. it makes it hard

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tymeModerator22 Dec 2023, 6:58 pm AEDT

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You're in my borderline camp then 🙂 Makes the two of us @outlander

Over the years, I've been taught how to socialise lol..literally

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