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Something’s not right

not coping

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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That might be a good idea hon @outlander

If your family think you are just going for medical treatment it might make it easier to go and get some help. Even if it is at a different place it could work. A good thing to think about.

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its probably the only @snowi e but every one around me at the moment is struggling esp financially so its hard.

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I acknowledge that it is expensive @outlander especially if you go private. I have never gone public so cannot compare the two.

Every time I have gone in it has been to the same hospital, so my knowledge on different ones is very limited.

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my insurance would probably cover it as a private service @Snowie

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I've got private health, but I've only ever gone to public, and that's because it was out of necessity, and not a planned admission. @Snowie @outlander .

It's been more helpful for me in PARCs which was also public, but planned and for longer periods of time.

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I'm glad your private insurance would cover it @outlander Might be something to look into.

@tyme mine have always been planned admission, normally to change meds, do ECT or because my SI was getting out of hand. Even with my SI admissions, they got me in very quickly.

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ive had unplanned admissions @tyme but i need to try and hide the face of why im in hospital from family. i cant having any more feuds. i just want to go and help myself without all the questions and judgements and being treated differently

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I was turned away from private because I was too high risk @Snowie

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i might be to high risk to @tyme

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I'm sorry that happened to you @tyme

The private hospital I go into has a high risk area which I have been in quite a few times.

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