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Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2017, 8:11 pm AEST

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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SnowieSenior Contributor15 Dec 2023, 8:48 am AEDT

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Good morning hon @outlander

Hope you got some sleep last night and today goes ok. 💗💗

Still need to wrap presents, maybe today...

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outlanderSenior Contributor15 Dec 2023, 5:50 pm AEDT

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thanks @tyme ive also decided to apply for NDIS. im not sure ill be able to get it but i could really use the support with all my conditions

thanks @Snowie its hard already having pop home and now its school holidays. i hate the holidays.

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tymeModerator15 Dec 2023, 6:02 pm AEDT

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All the best with your application @outlander 🙂

I think the main thing to focus on when putting in documentation for your NDIS application is how your disability affects daily functioning.

So for some, they may have a disability, but it doesn't really affect daily life, then it's harder to prove they need NDIS.

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outlanderSenior Contributor15 Dec 2023, 6:08 pm AEDT

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we finally got the tree up and ive decorated the house a little too @tyme @Snowie i havent been motivated at all to do it but its finally done. most of the wrapping is done but ive been helping mum cause shes hiding her gifts here away from a sneaky snoopy kid so ive been doing some extra wrapping.

my fatigue levels are really bad lately and getting quite alot of pain and other symptoms but theres nothing really that i can do for it except just try to manage as best i can. having so many complex conditions gets so hard sometimes

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tymeModerator15 Dec 2023, 6:20 pm AEDT

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Lol @outlander

You've got more energy than me! I'm looking around thinking "what tree?"

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outlanderSenior Contributor15 Dec 2023, 6:54 pm AEDT

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i do it for pop @tyme i have no motivation or excitment for christmas this year with everything happening

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tymeModerator15 Dec 2023, 7:02 pm AEDT

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I've just sent you an email @outlander

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SnowieSenior Contributor16 Dec 2023, 3:30 pm AEDT

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sending love @outlander 💗💗

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outlanderSenior Contributor16 Dec 2023, 10:00 pm AEDT

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is anyone around to talk to?

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Captain24Senior Contributor16 Dec 2023, 10:28 pm AEDT

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Hey @outlander. I’m here for a little while. Just setting the dogs up for bed.

How are things?

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