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Something’s not right

not coping

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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Everyone’s annoying
Me

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Hey @ArraDreaming

I think you need to log off before you say something you will regret.

Goodbye

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Don’t tell me what to do

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@outlander ignore it

Here for you hon and listening

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@ArraDreaming its fine that you dont care. if you dont want to read it then no one is forcing you to.

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Good for you

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Lets get back on track @outlander

That is a lot of work hon. Concerned about the amount versus looking after yourself. I know you know your own body, but do take it easy hon. You matter a great deal.

I'm glad the antibiotics are at least helping.

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i actually really enjoy my new jobs @Snowie it gives variety and some challanges too. it does get hard sometimes though like the weekend emergencies but i guess we cant always tell when our clients need extra support. im learning alot too and feel like the change was a good one and is providing more opportunities.

when i got home from medical treatment is spent a couple of days not functioning and not being able to move off the lounge so its good to be sort of past that at the moment. i do go through those phases when my medical conditions flare up though. im going ok fatigue wise but i guess the longer hours this weekend have kicked my butt abit. i have tomorrow off or sort of, only drs and night shift. have a long list of things to get through but its not hard its just picking up click and collects and stuff ive had to put off across the last couple of days. but ill see what happens.

yes thankfully the antibiotics are helping ive been quite worried about it because its so deep and in a high risk area. ill get to find out more tomorrow to see what else can be done if anything

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I'm glad you are enjoying your new jobs @outlander It is much easier to work when we like it.

I hope you are able to tick some things of your list tomorrow.

Hopefully the gp is able to help tomorrow and things are getting better. You could do with some good news

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and the bosses are better too @Snowie so its good. i feel like its a good change.

id like to try and get all the click and collects and get to the post office tomorrow. itll mean ive finished all the christmas shopping

tonight im abit tired but not overly tired so im going to try and get some wrapping done tonight and watch a movie to wind down after a big weekend. i quite like the new cartoon grinch so i might watch that
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