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not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Glad the bosses are better @outlander makes going to work actually enjoyable.

Thats good that you have finished christmas shopping hon. I need to go one day this week and finish everything off. Think I will drive to a shopping centre not near me, that way I won't bump into anyone.

I haven't seen the new Grinch cartoon. Might have to put it on my movie christmas list!

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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i do most of mine online @Snowie as i work most nights so it just gets delivered. i will head to the shops if i cant find something or sometimes when im out and i spot something ill pick it up.

its pretty good. i watch alot of cartoons though. i watch alot of disney stuff. its good to manage my anxieties and also keeps my brain occupied. ive really taken a liking togoing back to watching originals

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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I do some online too @outlander but there a few things I need to go to the shops for.

I have about 5 deliveries I am expecting in the next few days.

Thats good that movies help your anxities and keep you occupied. Watching a movie with hubby at the moment called 13hours. If an action movie.

I like going back and watching some christmas classics. We always watch National Lampoons Christmas Vacation on xmas eve. A bit of a tradition now.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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oh i love that movie @Snowie its so funny.

i dont have it on dvd though and i dont think its on any of the streaming apps?

im watching ride like a girl with a client at the moment. its a really good movie and we just watching a baseball movie called 42. that was pretty good too.

the classics on disney ive been watching have been like the original beauty and the beast, cinderella, pinocchio, um all those sorts of movies. its been good to go back ad watch them all but ive also been watching criminal minds and malcom in the middle as well for variety

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Sounds like you have found some really good movies. Nothing like the classics @outlander

I watch criminal minds too, good series.

I have National Lampoons already recorded on foxtel, so just go back and rewatch it.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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i dont have foxtel @Snowie its probably the only one i dont have. ill have to look through and see if i can find it. i know its not on netflix or disney but maybe stan will have it. otherwise i might just buy it on dvd. it wont go to waste.

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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It is a classic @outlander no it won't go to waste.

I was thinking of getting stan. I watch big bang theory and friends on foxtel. Other than that I watch netflix.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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stan is pretty good @Snowie but it goes through phases and i tend to rotate between the apps. sometimes netflix has nothing but rubbish so i swap to one of the other apps and vise versa.

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Fair enough @outlander

Will say goodnight hon. Have to go pick up S from work soon and then bed time for me.

Has been really nice talking to you tonight.

I hope your gp appt. goes ok tomorrow.

Sending love 💕💕

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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thanks for the company @Snowie i hope S is ready to be picked up soon. im finishing work in half hour then heading home for dinner, movie and christmas wrapping
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