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Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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tymeModerator

Re: not coping

I hope you feel better soon @outlander .

Are you okay to work? I'm sorry to hear you had to go back to hospital. Have you started the other treatment yet?

Sorry for all these questions. I'm just worried about you as I haven't heard from you in a while and I know how intense the treatment could have been for you.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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itsonly light duties either working from home or easy going clients that are happy to watch movies or play board games or working night so theyre sleeping anyway @Snowie its why i decided to still go to work.



@tyme
i have just finished the course of intensive treatment so have been away for nearly 2 weeks and then had to go to hospital for some post surgery things from before i left for treatment.
im not working right now but i am tonight in a few hours with lots of work across the week/weekend. the treatment was very intense and had many side effects when i got home so didnt move to far from the lounge when i got home

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tymeModerator

Re: not coping

I hope things improve @outlander .

Please reach out if you need anything team@saneforums.org

We recognise it's been a hard trot and you didn't have much support post surgery/treatment.

How long do you think it'll be before you are back to yourself?

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Glad it is only light duties then @outlander

Hopefully the patients stay asleep!!

Been home looking after hubby. He has covid. Have disinfected the house!

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tymeModerator

Re: not coping

Hey @Snowie @Eve7 🙂 Hope you are okay

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SnowieSenior Contributor

Re: not coping

Hi @tyme

I hope your day has been a good one.

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tymeModerator

Re: not coping

I'm actually a bit tired today @Snowie . Not sure why because I had enough sleep. Maybe it's just one of those days.

I'll be on the Peer Group Chat later tonight. I hope you can make it - if you feel up to it.

No pressure though.

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Will probably come across to the peer group chat @tyme

I interested in the topic.

Might just be one of those days. Hopefully you are not on here too late tonight.

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tymeModerator

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I'm glad the kids here are out of the house. They have their school concert on tonight which they are very excited about. At least it gives me some peace and quiet for now. @Snowie

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SnowieSenior Contributor

Re: not coping

Ahhh some peace and quiet @tyme Enjoy the time by yourself.

No doubt the kids will be there all the time soon once they are on holidays!

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