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Something’s not right

not coping

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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Always check in on you hon @outlander You are important to me.

I hope things are going ok and you are at least getting some rest.

Sending lots of love 💕💕

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Good morning my sis @outlander

Wishing you a good day and hoping things are going well.

Sending 💌💌 to you

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ive been back in hospital again @Snowie 😞 post surgical complications 😞

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Hi @outlander

I'm so sorry to hear you are back in hospital. I hope things turn around for you real soon.

warmest wishes

Hanami

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Oh dear hon @outlander

I'm sorry to hear that but thankful you are in the right place and getting the help you need.

Take care 💗💗

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So sorry @outlander sending lots of love and hope it’s a quick fix.

💙💙💙

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theyve let me come home but have many instructions that i need to try and follow so that everything heals now. the doctor who performed the surgery initially unfortunately didn't do the procedure right so its going to be a long recovery. I'm cleared to work at least depending on the jobs. no high intensity for a while. @Snowie @Eve7 @hanami

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Good to hear that you are home now @outlander Nothing like our own bed.

Make sure you take it easy hon 💜💜

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ill be working the next few nights/days so i wont really be home much which is ok with me @Snowie im not feeling overly well with all the medications i need to be on at the moment to fight the infection but hopefully in next few days itll start clearing up more

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I hope it is just light duties at work @outlander You don't want to make things worse.

Hoping the infection clears up soon.

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