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Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2017, 8:11 pm AEST

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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SnowieSenior Contributor08 Oct 2023, 7:20 pm AEDT

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Just discovered it this afternoon @outlander Not sure if it is on any other networks. I only have foxtel and netflix. Was thinking of getting Stan too.

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outlanderSenior Contributor08 Oct 2023, 7:23 pm AEDT

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yea fairly comfortable @tyme its abit of a challange but getting the hang of it. just want to do my best and hopefully its good enough

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outlanderSenior Contributor08 Oct 2023, 7:27 pm AEDT

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i have netflix stan and now disney @Snowie i like them all. whatever isnt on one its usually on one of the other 2

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SnowieSenior Contributor08 Oct 2023, 7:36 pm AEDT

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Might have to look into getting a few more @outlander

Just had a shower and into my pj's. Think a very early night might be needed here.

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outlanderSenior Contributor08 Oct 2023, 7:41 pm AEDT

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im just about to order some dinner @Snowie i cant be bothered cooking. wont be a late night for me either. this cold is knocking me around a fair bit

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SnowieSenior Contributor08 Oct 2023, 7:58 pm AEDT

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I hope you can get a good nights sleep @outlander

Hoping your day goes well tomorrow.

Going to head off and go to bed. Thanks for the company today 💜

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outlanderSenior Contributor08 Oct 2023, 8:00 pm AEDT

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goodnight @smowie i dont think ill be long out of bed either

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outlanderSenior Contributor08 Oct 2023, 8:26 pm AEDT

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do you have any plans for tomorrow @tyme

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tymeModerator08 Oct 2023, 8:44 pm AEDT

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I've still got a few things to get from my house coz the guy wants to move in earlier. He saw the house for the first time today and was in tears - he was so grateful @outlander . It made my day that I can help someone. I just hope he comes clean and stays well.

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outlanderSenior Contributor08 Oct 2023, 8:58 pm AEDT

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i really hope so to @tyme its such a nice thing your doing. all i hope is he respects your house as i know it took a lot for you to decide to use it

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